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    Can't wait to know

    Where am I heading for?
    What am I going to do?
    Who am I going to become?
    Who will be with me?

    Give me an answer!
    Give me an answer!!
    I want the answer!!!!

    For a leave from MSN Blog

    Dear all,
     
    So bad I am!!
     
    Kinda like giving up MSN Blog for a very very very long time... I don't know... I feel like no desire to write.
    Basically, if you wanna know what is going on with me~~well, the only truth is www.xiaonei.com.
    However, there is no any good articles in my written lists. I think this must be the result of my 3 year learning in CUHK: my Chinese begins to SUCK & my English keeps to be SUCK.
     
    ANyway, thanks for my friends who still drop on my MSN Blog some time. I love you guys & hope all goes well for you!!
     
    Yours,
    Derek

    颓,不需要语言

    有种颓废,
    不需要语言,
    不需要解释,
     
    随着时间流逝的,
    除了我的头发,
    看来还有很多东西.

    又让我不爽的关于中国的报道

    流氓准备开始写时事评论了,
    现在没有时间,
    先把LINK帖出来,有空了再一个一个地写评论.
    大家等等我哈!!!

    近期听到的极品音乐大推荐

    1.首先要隆重推出,在我听了那么多的流行歌曲,看了这么多明星晃来晃去之后,我终于找到一个我觉得很有性格很有天赋---有资格做我的偶像的歌手----那就是VITAS!!!!
    俄罗斯的堪称完美的俊男,音乐的表现力和外表的超强张力让他足以在天资上就可以被称为妖惑众生的歌伶.以前我很奇怪为什么会有那么多人喜欢走中性化路线的张国容,我不明白他的魅力来自何处.等我看了VITAS的表演之后,我才懂得,原来一个艺术家很大程度上,其才华出众是通过他的表现力的拓展程度如何来体现的.我强力推荐他的OPERA2的现场MV,他的眼睛有一种被诅咒的美妙,好像抓住了每一个观众的心.至于他的声音嘛,可以说毫无悬念,横跨5个八度的音域光是在数量上就让人产生了天文数字的感觉.再仔细听他的高音的海豚音,简直惊为天人,怀疑他是不是从火星上刚坐飞船过来表演的.他还有一首叫"星星"的歌也不错.
     

    2.再提一个外国的男孩吧,declan galbraith.11岁,也是声音纯净得不行,好象被屈臣士17层过滤过一样.年纪轻轻,音乐的技巧就已经纯熟而又生动.他有一个有意思的童年生活,据说他爷爷是唱歌的.所以从小就教他歌唱的技巧.但是他没有学习所谓的流行歌曲,相反,他比较喜欢民俗的东西.大概这就是他为什么在11岁的年龄就足以用心歌唱的缘故吧.
    特别要说的是他的那首DANNY BOY,很纯.其实本来这首歌的曲子和词就配合得非常精妙.但是听了好几个版本,只有他的版本才让我听到了山谷的微风,听到了亲人的眼泪,听到了漫山遍野花落处,一抹让人回味的笑.听听这首歌吧,你们一定会喜欢上这个天使的声音的.
    "這首愛爾蘭民謠的歌詞, 尤其帶有一種特殊的感人心魄.
      
      Oh Danny boy, the pipes, the pipes are calling
      From glen to glen, and down the mountain side
      The summer‘s gone, and all the flowers are dying
      ‘Tis you, ‘tis you must go and I must bide
      
      噢!丹尼少年,笛聲正在召喚
      從山谷間到山的另一邊
      夏天已走遠,花兒都已枯萎
      你得離去,而我得等待
      
      But come you back when summer‘s in the meadow
      Or when the valley‘s hushed and white with snow
      ‘Tis I‘ll be there in sunshine or in shadow
      Oh Danny boy, oh Danny boy, I love you so
      
      但你回來了,當夏天回到草原上的時候
      或是當山谷沉靜下來,因雪而白了頭的時候
      我一定會去那兒,不論是陽光普照或陰影覆蓋
      噢!丹尼少年,我是多麼的愛你
      
      And if you come, when all the flowers are dying
      And I am dead, as dead I well may be
      You‘ll come and find the place where I am lying
      And kneel and say an "Ave" there for me
      
      如果你在百花凋謝的時候前來
      而我已經死去,死的很安詳
      你會前來,找到我長眠之地
      跪下來和我說"再見"
      
      And I shall hear, tho‘ soft you tread above me
      And all my dreams will warm and sweeter be
      If you‘ll not fail to tell me that you love me
      I simply sleep in peace until you come to me
      
      我會傾聽,雖然你輕柔的踩在我上面
      我的夢將會更溫暖而甜蜜
      如果你真的對我說你愛我
      我會在平靜中安息,直到你來我身邊"

    3.然后就是说出来让人觉得我很媚俗的梁静茹了,当然最近比较喜欢的就是现在大家听到的"恋着多喜欢"了.
    其实说真的,听歌无非就是有两个目的,要不是获得共鸣,就是纯粹喜欢那个人的声音.我听梁静茹大多是出于第一个目的.
    她的声音很真,好像每句歌词都是她的真心话一般.这种感觉只有这样年龄的歌手才可以完全表现,不然的话,难道我们还要去听蔡阿姨唱初恋吗?我都在等她唱黄昏恋了,她居然还好意思装嫩~~~心态年轻没什么不好,但是故作姿态就让人反感了.
     
    4.信乐团,就好像他们的名字一样,充满信念和力量.
    "死了都要爱",名字俗到了极点,但是感情却一点都不俗.相反,我倒是觉得他们的撕心呐喊惊天动地.有时侯,当感觉真的强烈到了无法阻止的地步,我们又何必压抑呢?这不禁让我想起了曾经很受欢迎的"老鼠爱大米",那个没有诗意的名字,搭配着一张没有诗意的歌手的脸,耳朵里面还有那个没有诗意的歌声,但是还不是凭着"我爱你"三个字就红遍了大江南北?人可以很高尚,但是只要是人,就不会脱离人的最纯真的东西.不管是王子,还是青蛙,当经历命运中那难忘的时刻,也许也不过都是止不住地心跳.
    "离歌",古典的味道.和忧郁铿镪的音质相互辉映.也是一首值得一听的作品.
    "one night in beijing", 很体现实力的一首歌,用了京剧的元素,把时尚和古典交融在一块了.
     
    5.也许你没有听过"GOD is a girl",但是这并不会阻碍你喜欢上GROOVE的乐队.
    他们的DJ的水准在世界上一流,节奏把握和力量控制都很不错.
    主唱的女生不是中国人听腻了的那种甜美,而是沧桑的怜悯的声音,不过她的好几首作品都有点雷同的感觉,至少听这首主打的GODis a girl吧.
     
    6."绿柠檬树下的爱"
    组合的名字一下子记不得了,不过如果大家对"喜刷刷"有印象的话------对了,就是花儿乐队去年很红的一首歌,主旋律就是完全抄袭了"
    绿".
    小声地说,如果你听了"绿",你绝对会把花儿乐队的专辑直接丢进垃圾筒,什么玩意啊!!抄都给你抄了,抄得比原作差这么远.实在是心寒啊!!国内的音乐团体也太没素质了吧.
     
    7."雨樱花"
    F.I.R的众多歌曲中很有东洋风的一首,充满了活力,大概是因为最近我自己想听点轻快的东西吧,给大家推荐一下罗!!!
     
     
    其实还有很多不错的MUSIC的,今天太困了,就先这样了.
    哎!音乐是这个学期我唯一没有一点放弃的爱好啊!!其它的活动都没什么时间去弄了.

    今天听到一首令我感动的歌

    星振闹成一串 月色笑成一弯
    傻傻望了你一晚 怎么看都不觉得烦
    爱自己不到一半 心都在你身上
    只要能让你快乐 我可以拿一切来换
    这世上你最好看 眼神最让我心安
    只有你跟我有关 其他的我都不管
    全世界你最温暖 肩膀最让我心安
    没有你我怎么办 没有你我怎么办
    答应我别再分散
    这样恋著多喜欢 没有你我不太习惯
    这样恋著多喜欢 没有你我多么孤单
    这世上你最好看 眼神最让我心安
    只有你跟我有关 其他的我都不管
    全世界你最温暖 肩膀最让我心安
    没有你我怎么办 答应我别再分散
    星振闹成一串 月色笑成了一弯
    傻傻望了你一晚 怎么看都不烦
    爱自己就一半 心都在你身上转
    只要能够让你快乐 我什么事都不困难

    就化学教授的人品和水准发表一点议论

    虽然我很希望能够心情平静地说出我的看法,
    但是~~~~犹豫了再三,我还是决定------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------,"TNND!!!!要是打人不犯法,我一定见你一次,打你一次!!!"
    什么烂NOTES!!!乱78遭的,没个东南西北!!
    ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------(深呼吸中)如果这种水准也可以当老师,还要警察来干什么???
     

    无题

    其实最近很忙~~~
    虽然"忙"这个字从我嘴巴说出来已经没有什么意义--MS我一年到头,除了仅有的一两个月自己会很空虚之外,
    剩下的就是忙.
    但是还是想到要写一写最近在LDP发生的一些有意思的事情:
    1.某同学称赞另一位同学:
    眼睛大大的,睫毛长长的,说起话来眼睛一眨一眨的,好可爱......
    这种形容词一长串的冲出来,当场把我和CONAN笑得肚子都开始痛,但是肚子痛还是小事.某同学顿时开始用武力力图杀人灭口,至于结果嘛~~~~HOHO!我还是幸运地逃离了案发现场.
    2.William和Mary的课总算是结束了,
    我的感觉如同是守得云开见月明,幸福啊!
    虽然我不想伤他们的心,但是只要是他们的课,我一定会保持每次上课至少磕睡半小时,我冒着被扣分的危险,连在最后一天PRESENT的时候,都有半个小时在睡觉.
    因为真的好闷啊!!!
    3.我终于在"倾PRO"的过程中体会到了女工的好处,那里的鱼蛋和肠粉,还有饭团&&&绝对是下午茶的最佳选择,
    4.在LDP的这些日子,我终于决定勇敢地接受"迟到冠军"这一毫无悬念的称号,而且居然最高记录是迟到一个半钟,现在想来还是比较有成就感的.话说回来,要是深究,我其实还有获得"早退冠军"的潜能,记得有一天上课,为了......我提早两个小时溜出了冯景禧
    5.认识了来自清华的对SEX的EVELUTIONARY颇有研究的学长,在不幸的被他了解到我和马加爵来自同一省份之后,他非常自觉地交出了在百佳大减价时买的OREO,恳请我万一要杀人,务必要记得他曾经给过我一块COOKIE,就算死,也让他死得好一点.
    6.TNND,写到这里,我突然意识到我还有四份LOG BOOK REPORT 要交,暂时和大家惜别了!!!
    闪人写作业!!!

    英雄今何在, 笑对离愁, 谁明白

    This was a made-for-television memorial service which brought together the two contrasting worlds which Steve Irwin occupied: the expansive wilderness of the Australian Outback, and the extraordinary fame of Hollywood.

    Sure, there were tributes from stars like Russell Crowe and Cameron Diaz, and a deftly-worded eulogy from Prime Minister John Howard.

    But the real emotional power came from the family and friends of Steve Irwin, like Wes Mannion, his mate at the Australia Zoo, who broke down in tears as he remembered the day when the Crocodile Hunter saved his life.

    Terri Irwin, Steve Irwin's wife, sits with daughter Bindi (L) and son Bob at the memorial service
    Irwin's family wore his trademark khaki uniform at the memorial service
    There was music from a choir wearing the Crocodile Hunter's trademark khaki uniform, and at one stage three elephants were brought into the Crocoseum arena, the poolside stadium where Steve Irwin delighted fans with his wildlife antics.

    But then he always said that the animals should be the stars.

    The biggest cheer was reserved for his daughter, eight-year-old Bindi, who already has her own television show and is set to follow in her father's perilous footsteps.

    Clearly, she is a natural performer and a youngster of extraordinary poise.

    The service was interspersed with film of Steve Irwin in action, grappling with crocodiles, staring down snakes - his unique blend of adventurism and bravado which made him a global sensation.

    There has been a very public re-evaluation of his lifetime's accomplishments

    The service reached its climax with Steve Irwin's white pick-up truck being loaded with croc-hunting gear, and then driven slowly from the arena.

    Then staff from the Australia zoo laid a floral tribute, spelling out his catchphrase: "Crikey."

    It is easy to be cynical, but the effect was genuinely moving.

    And the show was not over yet. Anthony Field, the blue-shirted member of that other great Australian global phenomenon The Wiggles, leapt energetically onto stage shouting "Croc Rules".

    Potty homage

    This has been an extraordinary couple of weeks to be in Australia, in no way comparable to the wave of emotion that convulsed the UK after the death of Princess Diana, but fascinating nonetheless.

    Much of the reaction seems to have been kid-driven by the Crocodile Hunter's young army of adoring fans.

    And perhaps some of it stemmed from a sense of guilt: that Irwin received greater approbation outside of Australia, certainly at the start of his television career, than at home.

    Certainly, there has been a very public re-evaluation of his lifetime's accomplishments.

    Prior to his death, I doubt if many Australians knew the full extent of his conservation work: the fact that he financed so many projects from the dollars generated by his television success. His claim to be a "wildlife warrior" was no idle boast.

    Though it did not make any of the television specials and retrospectives, one of my favourite tributes came on a radio phone-in show on the afternoon that Steve Irwin was killed.

    A young mother chirpily recalled the day that her young infant managed to perform potty duties for the first time without any mishaps.

    In celebration, she told her proud young son that he could call anyone in the world to share the good news.

    "I want to call the Croc Hunter," came the cry.

    ------------------------http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/5363130.stm

     

         一个人的成就,不在于他自己做了多少的事,而在于他所做的事,推动了多少人。

         有时候,流氓在回忆以前看过的写雷锋的书,总是不禁要问自己:值得吗?一个普通得再不能普通的男人,为了自己的信仰,一生都在做那些普通得不能再普通的事。过去如此,今天再看起来也是一样,甚至有过之而无不及。试问,在香港这样的一个地方,有谁会觉得雷锋不是傻子?有谁会愿意浪费自己的时间,去帮别人提提包,扛扛东西?别说为了别人牺牲自己,坐在MRT上也没见几个人肯把自己的座位让给更需要的人。但是,无论基于什么目的,当一个人愿意为了自己的选择不顾一切,甚至冲破世人的俗念时,这本身就是一种令人感动的力量。

         很多人,更准确点说,是绝大多数的人,永远地将自己看做生命的核心。他们努力,他们成功,他们享受--这是一个多么完美的生存模式!只可惜,走到生命的尽头,当他们闭上双眼,结局只有一个:他们消失。

         英雄,走的是另外一条路--当他们面对选择,他们的天平总是将信仰称得最重,所以名誉不重要了,金钱不重要了,推到极至:生命其实也不过是一副随时可以发霉发丑的躯壳。

         英雄难做!!

         Crocodile Hunter 做到了。

         命也许是他一生中最不屑一顾的东西,而这恰恰也是他注定要被众人仰视的原因。

         当他把手中的儿子当作鳄鱼的诱饵,全世界的人都在惊叹--惊叹一个不负责任的父亲,惊叹一个不被他人的思想束缚的男人。可是,流氓反思,倘若他没有这样的勇气和自信,又怎能成就他的顶天立地?

         他死后,他的FANS是那么的爱他,这个世界是那么的敬仰他。那么,不是已经足够了吗?

    流氓感慨:英雄今何在,

                         若回头,墓矮矮。

                         笑对离愁,

                         空作弄,已然度外。

                         谁明白,男儿泪,

                         莫非坠入叱咤海?

    菊花台

    你的泪光柔弱中带伤
    惨白的月儿弯弯勾住过往
    夜太漫长凝结成了霜
    是谁在阁楼上冰冷地绝望

    雨轻轻叹朱红色的窗
    我依身在纸上被风吹乱
    梦在远方化成一缕香
    随风飘散你的模样

    菊花灿烂地烧
    你的笑容已泛黄
    花落人断肠我心事静静躺
    被风乱也微摇
    你的影子剪不断
    独留我孤单在湖面神伤

    花已伤完
    飘落了灿烂
    凋谢的市道上冥冥不堪
    手摸独樵愁心拆两半
    他已上不了爱一辈子摇晃
    谁的江山马蹄声慌乱
    我一身的戎装呼啸沧桑
    天微微亮你轻声的叹
    一夜惆怅如此委婉

    我骗不了别人,
    就象别人骗不了我.
    谁是明天的太阳,
    让我相信和畅开胸怀的拥抱.
    背脊里的利剑,
    如果到了极限,
    也将无可奈何地,
    伤害周围的每一个人.

    love

    I love you not because of who you are,
    but because of who I am when I am with you.

    No man or woman is worth your tears,
    and the one who is ,
    won’t make you cry.

    The worst way to miss someone is
    to be sitting right beside them
    knowing you can’t have them.

    Never frown,even when you are sad,
    because you never know
    who is falling in love with your smile.

    To the world
    you may be one person,
    but to one person
    you may be the world.

    Don’t waste your time on a man/woman,
    who isn’t willing
    to waste their time on you.

    Just because someone
    doesn’t love you the way you want them to,
    doesn’t mean
    they don’t love you with all they have.

    Don’t try to hard,
    the best things come
    when you least expect them to.

    Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people
    before meeting the right one,
    so that when we finally meet the person,
    we will know how to be grateful.

    Don’t cry because it is over,
    smile because it happened.

    Life is a pure flame,
    and we live by an invisible sun within us.

    -------Sir Thomas Browne
     

     

    BBS经典语录(转)

    1.先是超女冠军李宇春,后是奥斯卡奖的《断臂山》,中国同性恋们终于站起来了!

    2.有看《金刚》不哭的MM吗?我想没有~但如果换成是女金刚和男帅哥的话,我想就完全不会有人哭了~

    3.欧盟一个劲儿指责中国打击盗版不力,因为全球限量生产的6辆法拉利仅在中国就有7辆!

    4.“不得穿内裤和拖鞋进教室!”说实话,即便在南邮混了四年,我脸皮也没厚到不穿内裤进教室……

    5.长得帅有个屁用,消费完了能用那张脸去刷卡么!!

    6.五一长假,租女友,一日。

    7.特大喜讯:《实况足球10》终于有中国队啦!!!中国队唯一用途是高手在向周围人炫耀时说:“来来来,我们切两把,我选中国队~”

    8.小朋友们都站好,摆个pose照相啦!唉~小莉,站要有站相,不要像frjj那样~~~

    9.以前资本家宁可把牛奶倒掉也不给穷人喝,现在房产商宁可把房子空着也不给百姓住!

    10.不能成为举人,如何傍眼探花?

    11.今天一群日本人来我校参观——说实话,这是我第一次看到穿衣服的日本人……

    12.中国石油十大化:干部贵族化,员工奴隶化,人际复杂化,加班日夜化,上班无偿化,业绩保密化,竟聘内定化,检查形式化,待遇民工化,加薪?那是TMD的神话!!!

    13.上帝欲使人灭亡,必先使其疯狂;上帝欲使人疯狂,必先使其买房!

    14.我宁愿接受你在流氓身下拼死反抗,也不愿承受你在男人身下飘飘欲仙!

    15.由于之前大阪钢巴队在国内联赛以6-1痛扫同城死敌大阪樱花队,所以今晚亚冠比赛有40名大阪樱花队的球迷来大连为实德队加油……

    16.终于明白周杰伦的《范特西》是什么意思了——粥!

    17.答辩难度要视答辩老师头天晚上的性生活质量而定~

    18.亚当一加班回去晚了,夏娃就数他肋骨……

    19.乡亲们,太监说了,只要交出土八路,红军是不会亏待你们滴~

    20.网通用户说:“我不在刷新来福岛的页面中,就一直在登陆来福岛的过程中……”

    21.小时候妈妈常唠叨:“考不上清华啊咱就考北大。”结果长大了我连北大也没考上……

    22.朋友们都说我是著名的音乐人,因为每次去k歌,他们唱的都是别人的歌,而我却总是自己谱曲……

    23.我女朋友曾经说过:“我的愿望并不高~老公不用太有钱,能在我怀孕时开车接我上下班就行。”后来,她嫁给了一个出租车司机……

    24.昨天,我残忍地拒绝了一个令我无法拒绝的女人提出的无法拒绝的要求——老妈心疼地对我说:“娃啊,你也不小了,该找个女朋友了……”

    25.远在老家的奶奶听我考上北大的消息后很伤心地说:“娃呀,你怎么不上中央民族学院啊,那好歹也算是个中央院校啊,那破北京大学不就是个地方院校嘛~”

    26.车比暗疮还要挤,心比六级更难过,校网像明一的玻璃一样劲破,自己像中东的天桥一样没用……

    27.如果我是蒲公英该有多好:有漂亮的头饰,有特别的翅膀,而且妈妈不会阻止我远航……

    28.我很穷,我家的佣人也很穷,我家的园丁也很穷,我家的司机也很穷……

    29.起床从不叠被,学习从来不累;不进学生会,根本无所谓!
      常常夜不能寐,思考谁最般配;男女适当配对,青春不能浪费~
      深知不学不对,仍然喝酒聚会;半夜三更不睡,上课常抹眼泪……
      就是群雄荟萃,期末复习不背;考试啥也不会,重修不过就退!

    30.我们为尿是不是由于地心引力而排出体外争论不休,我是持反对意见的一方。为证明我方观点正确,我一边倒立,一边小便给他们看……

    31.热恋伤身,暗恋伤心……

    32.如果这个世界上不存在性,那么我想爱情才会出现~

    33.昵称叫“我爱XXX”的最终以分手的居多……

    34.思想有多远,你就滚多远!!!

    35.最差的人品莫过于痴痴地盯着一个丑女看半晌,然后叹口气说:“靠,这恐龙做得太像真的了……”

    36.mm叹口气道:“终于见血了,这灾是不是就算躲过了……”

    37.从哪个床上跌倒,就再从哪个床上爬起来!!

    38.爱你,有种被枪指着头的感觉……

    39.我把今生幸福郑重地交给了自己的左手……
      
    40.亲爱的,死没?死的话抱紧我,好让收尸的知道我们是一对儿!

    41.天大的男生打女生——打一游戏名——反恐精英;天大的女生打女生——打一游戏名——魔兽争霸!

    42.刚毕业时:弟兄们,后会有期啊;毕业一年:兄弟们,后会有妻啊;后来:兄弟们,后悔有妻啊;再后来:兄弟们,会有后妻啊;最后:兄弟们,悔有后妻啊!

    43.J总书记在交大校庆时说:“前几年上海交大还排21,现在都第三了,看来我的影响还是深远的~” 如今总书记退休了,一些官员过河拆桥,交大汉芯丑闻立刻被暴光!唉~今年7月我就要毕业离开农大了,不知道农大会出什么乱子……

    44.班里女同学下晚自习不敢回去,后来她们每人带了个手电筒——这样每当遇到草丛里蹦出来的人时,只要冷静地掏出手电筒对着自己的脸照一照就一切都安全了……

    45.日本人把“纪念”写做“记念”,鲁迅先生在日本几年可能写习惯了,所以在《记念刘和珍君》中写了错别字,也就是现在汉语说的通假字,但如果我们也那样写就是错别字了~看来历史都是由人写的,位高权重者驾驭历史……

    46.跳棋高手谈获胜秘诀:1.要不惜一切代价为自己铺路搭桥;2.当自己目的达到时要立即过河拆桥;3.万一自己陷入不利的境地,要死死地拖住对家的一个子不放,你赢不了对手对手也别想轻易赢!

    47.怎样争夺女主角?当不了男主角,就努力当个大反角;当不了大反角,争取当个够酷的男配角;当不了男配角,至少得当个不和主角正面拼的悲情角;当不了悲情角,那只好去当个主角身边的小丑角;要是连小丑角都当不了——我这里有本10块钱的宝典,可以教你如何取代女主角……

    48.大家一定要抵制日货——因为我刚买的索尼手机才用了俩礼拜就坏了!!

    49.没能力危害祖国,没理由背离人民,
      没资本好逸恶劳,没本事损人利己,
      没机会见利忘义,没胆量违法乱纪,
      没钞票骄奢淫逸,只好愚昧无知了!

    25岁男人应该知道的东西

    虽然知道在LUOBING的BLOG里面有转过同样的内容,但是我还是觉得好经典,所以转进自己的BLOG了.
        1.男人是社会的主体,不管你信或不信.所以男人应该有种责任感.
      
        2.25岁之前,请记得,爱情通常是假的,或者不是你所想象的那样纯洁和永远.如果你过了25岁,那么你应该懂得这个道理.
      
      3.吃饭7成饱最舒服.对待女友最多也请你保持在7成.
       
      4.30岁之前请爱惜自己的身体,前30年你找病,后30年病找你.如果你过了30岁,你自然也会懂得这个道理.
      
      5.事业远比爱情重要.如果说事业都不能永恒,那么爱情只能算是昙花一现.
      
      6.不要轻易接受追求你的女孩.女追男隔层纱.如果你很容易就陷进去,你会发现你会错过很多东西,失去很多东西.
      
      7.请你相信,能用钱解决的问题,都不是问题.如果你认为钱索王道,有钱有女人,没钱没女人,那么.女人不是问题.
      
      8.请永远积极向上.每个男人都有他可爱的地方,但是不可爱的地方只有不积极面对生活.
      
      9.不要连续2次让同一个女人伤害.好马不吃回头草,是有他道理的.如果认真考虑过该分手,那么请不要做任何舍不得的行动.
      
      10.如果你和你前女友能做朋友,那么你要问自己:为什么?如果分手后还是朋友,那么只有2个可能:.你们当初都只是玩玩而已,没付出彼此最真的感情.或者:必定有个人是在默默的付出无怨无悔!
      
      11.永远不要太相信女人在恋爱时的甜言蜜语.都说女人爱听甜言蜜语,其实,男人更喜欢.
      
      12.请不要为自己的相貌或者身高过分担心和自卑.人是动物,但是区别于动物.先天条件并不是阻挡你好好生活的借口.人的心灵远胜于相貌,请相信这点.如果有人以相貌取人,那么你也没必要太在意.因为他从某种意义来讲,只是只动物.你会跟动物怄气吗?
      
      13.失恋时,只有2种可能,要么你爱她她不爱你,或者相反.那么,当你爱的人不再爱你,或者从来没爱过你时.你没有遗憾,因为你失去的只是一个不爱你的人.
      
      14.请不要欺骗善良的女孩.这个世界上,善良的女孩太少.
      
      15.不能偏激的认为金钱万能,至少,金钱治不好艾滋病.
      
      16.请一定要有自信.你就是一道风景,没必要在别人风景里面仰视.
      
      17.受到再大的打击,只要生命还在,请相信每天的太阳都是新的.
      
      18.爱情永远不可能是天平.你想在爱情里幸福就要舍得伤心.
      
      19.如果你喜欢一个认为别人应该对她好的mm,请尽早放弃.没有人是应该对一个人好的.如果她不明白这个道理,也就是她根本不懂得珍惜.
      
      20.不要因为寂寞而’找’gf,寂寞男人请要学会品味寂寞.请记住:即使寂寞,远方黑暗的夜空下,一定有人和你一样,寂寞的人不同,仰望的星空却是唯一.
      
      21.任何事没有永远.也别问怎样才能永远.生活有很多无奈.请尽量充实自己,充实生活.请善待生活.
      
      End.男人有很多无奈,生活很累但是因为生活才有意义.当你以为你一无所有时,你至少还有时间,时间能抚平一切创伤.所以请不要流泪.

    这就是外国人眼中的中国医疗

    Dr Liu Quan trudges 20km (12 miles) a day along Sichuan's muddy mountain paths on his rounds.

    A village doctor for the past 55 years, he was just 15 when he started practising as a third-generation herbalist.

    Dr Liu Quan
    Dr Liu Quan says everyone got equal health care under Mao

    In the 1970s he received simple training under Chairman Mao's programme to send "barefoot doctors" to serve China's rural masses.

    Dr Liu still wears a faded Mao suit and a picture of the Great Helmsman dominates his bare clinic. He remembers those days with nostalgia.

    "In Chairman Mao's time, you could see a doctor whether you had money or not. We could carry out disease prevention, like injections, whether our patients had money or not. Nowadays only those with money can get injections," he says.

    Today the old system providing near-universal access to basic healthcare has been dismantled, as the government tries to spread the cost of providing healthcare to more than one billion people.

    Our hospital's state funding isn't enough to even cover staff salaries for one month. Under the current system, hospitals have to chase profit to survive
    Hu Weimin,
    cardiovascular doctor

    Economics rule and village doctors need to turn a profit. But making money is not easy when your patients are too poor to afford medical services.

    A World Health Organization survey measuring the equality of medical treatment placed China 187th out of 191 countries.

    The WHO's Hana Brixi explains: "Healthcare providers need to raise revenues. They are not covered even for the delivery of public services.

    "So they necessarily concentrate on those who have resources to spend. They provide excessive services to those who can pay, and limited services or no services at all to those who are unable to pay."

    The evidence suggests the poor are failing to seek medical treatment because of the cost, while the rich are paying more and more.

    Government figures show hospital visits actually dropped almost 5% between 2000 and 2003, yet hospital profits increased 70% over the same period.

    Behind such bald statistics lie heartbreaking stories, like that of Mrs Li. She lies semi-paralysed, unable to speak, in a well-known Beijing hospital.

    This is the result of a failed operation after she suffered a brain aneurysm. Her family have paid $18,000 and they do not know where the money has gone.

    Her daughter, Xie Pei, suspects the hospital increased the fees after finding out how wealthy they were.

    "My friend was visiting and a doctor asked her what my financial circumstances were like and what model of car I drove. The next day the doctor said the cost of the operation had gone up by $5,000."

    Backhanders

    The family admits they gave bribes to the doctors. It is not supposed to happen but it is commonplace in China.

    "I gave $1,000 to the professor," said Xie Pei. "Before the operation, a doctor told me that surgery would take place that night and I had to give money to others, including the anaesthetist. In the end I gave $1,700 in red packets. The first thing they did after the operation [failed] was return most of the money."

    The hospital declined to be interviewed by the BBC while it carries out an inquiry.

    This case highlights many of the worst problems with China's health service. Since 1980, government spending dropped from 36% of all healthcare expenditure to 17%, while patients' out-of-pocket spending rocketed up from 20% to 59%.

    One media report said a girl had 108 tests for an appendectomy, including an Aids test
    Hu Weimin

    With low subsidies, hospitals need to find other ways to cover their costs.

    Hu Weimin knows their strategies all too well. He is a cardiovascular doctor turned whistleblower, who publicised his hospital's regulations showing how it made money from patients.

    At his hospital, in Hunan province, doctors and their departments got a percentage payment from every prescription they wrote. So the more medicine doctors prescribed, the more they earned.

    Each time a patient was hospitalised, the physician was awarded a bonus of $3, while more sophisticated procedures earned bigger handouts.

    "There are many examples of chasing profit, such as ordering unnecessary test for a patient," Dr Hu told the BBC.

    "For example, if someone has a cold, giving them a CT scan. One media report said a girl had 108 tests for an appendectomy, including an Aids test. Moreover the cost of medicine has doubled, tripled or worse by the time it reaches the patients."

    Dr Hu was unwilling to speak about his own experience in detail. He had been beaten after exposing his hospital's charging system, and his family have moved elsewhere, fearful for their safety.

    But Dr Hu admitted hospitals have no choice but to act the way they do.

    "Our hospital's state funding isn't enough to even cover staff salaries for one month. Under the current system, hospitals have to chase profit to survive."

    The system has even been criticised by a government think tank, the State Council's Development Research Centre, which said healthcare reforms had "basically failed".

    Reforms

    It warned that social stability and public support for the government could be affected if the country does not overhaul healthcare. But health ministry spokesman Mao Qun'an disagreed.

    "We're providing basic health services for 22% of the world's population with 2% of the resources. I think we've had enormous success," he told the BBC.

    He also outlined an ambitious programme of further reforms, including building low-cost hospitals in cities and providing healthcare insurance to the whole population by 2010.

    However, Mr Mao acknowledged the system of hospital funding was flawed and admitted there was some overcharging.

    "I think we are bravely admitting that problems exist in our medical system, and that's a sign of our self-confidence," he said. "It's an expression of our determination to tackle these problems."

    Cheng Changzhen and her entire extended family
    Cheng Changzhen's extended family contributed to her treatment

    But in Fengyan village in Sichuan province, change will come too late for one family.

    Mrs Cheng is already stick-thin, her flesh cleaving to her bones. She watches as the rest of the family eats, unable to keep her food down. She has womb cancer, but had to stop treatment after four rounds of chemotherapy.

    "We have no money," she told me. "We relied on friends and relatives to raise money, but they can't raise any more. I still need treatment, but there's no more money."

    Her son dropped out of high school to find work, sacrificing his future to raise money for his mother's treatment. Her husband, Liu Niancai, admits her illness has plunged the extended family, and some of their neighbours, into poverty.

    "We used our life savings, more than $1,000, for treatment. But it cost more than three times that. All our relations and friends gave money, but it wasn't anywhere near enough," he said.

    One World Bank study found 20% of China's poor blamed healthcare costs for their financial straits.

    And the country's healthcare crisis reflects its biggest problems - fighting corruption, and bridging the ever-increasing divide between the rich and the poor, the city and the countryside.

    With anger growing among the have-nots, China's leaders may find the political cost of failing to solve the problem could be higher than they ever imagined.

     

    From BBC:http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/4763312.stm

    看完这篇文章,我的第一反应是愤怒!!

    这样一篇把中国医疗扁得一文不值的文章,居然出现在BBC的中国部分的"KEY STORIES"里面!!这算什么!!!

    这就反应的是中国的医疗现状?而且还是"关键内容"!!

    反思是两方面的:

    1.我们只能说在外国人的眼中,中国始终是一个落后而且存在巨大社会问题的国家,作为一个中国人,我为世界看不到中国的全貌而悲哀.

    2.反观自身,中国的医疗存在的弊病确实在一定程度上如文章所示.敲诈有钱人,欺压穷人.至于收红包之类的事情那就更加是全中国都知道的了,自古而然,确实是很难想有所改观啊!

         但是,无论从何种角度来说,这篇报道作为一个强势媒体对中国医疗的整体评论是绝对有失偏颇的.文章不但通篇大骂中国的医疗改革无效而徒有虚名,更在开篇就质疑了中国的医疗水平,居然把一个在毛泽东时代的赤脚医生的话作为中国医生的代表,可以说是极大的羞辱了我们.更为无耻的是,在文章的后半部分,作者不但强调了北京某一流医院(八成是暗指协和或者其他,纯粹是猜测)的医生收受贿赂,更说在此种情况下,手术失败,医生把钱全部退还.根本就是在说,全中国最好的医生都在收受贿赂,而且他们医术不怎地,医德也差---治不好人就灰溜溜地拍屁股走了.

         文章更在最后一部分斥责了中国官员的行政能力,把中国的官员说得是支支吾吾,懦弱无能,还在末尾自作聪明地来了一句什么:

    With anger growing among the have-nots, China's leaders may find the political cost of failing to solve the problem could be higher than they ever imagined.

    好象中国的政治前景都被作者看穿了似的,中国的在职领导人都不能"IMAGINE",凭什么作者高人一等地就可以"IMAGINE"了呢?

    大家谅解一下,流氓实在太激动了.看到这种文章,我是两个字"耻辱"啊!!!

    诸如此类的错误评论在文章中比比皆是,作者不知道去了哪个穷乡僻壤,问了一个医生,说什么"如果不骗老百姓的钱就发不起工资"的话,还说"所有的医院都在干这样的勾当,是没法子的事情."简直让人恨不得先打死那个医生,再打死这个作者.总之,一句话,"是中国人的都坚挺起来,别让别人看扁!!!"

     

     

    三天OUTWARD BOUND之小结

    向往了很长时间的LDP终于在三天OUTWARD BOUND的开营时候开始了,说真心话,我不是一般的厌恶这种开场方式。因为众多前辈纷纷在精神上给我巨大的压力。基本上就是把OUTWARD BOUND说成是人间炼域。没吃没喝没觉睡,还要被虐。之前去完新加坡,接着赶去加拿大,又赶回内地,随后赶回香港,一路上已经是精疲力竭。所以一听到OUTWARD BOUND的名字,我是混身起鸡皮疙瘩。
         不过很多事情真的可以和想象相去甚远。今天我写这篇BLOG的时候,活动已经结束。但是那种快乐和满足的感觉还是充溢在我的胸中。
    第一天的游戏:
    1、二十个人围成圈,其中两人手握着环,让这个环穿过所有人的身体,但是环却不能和人的身体发生接触。
        每个人都有自己的视线范围和盲点,当每个人面对自己的困难的时候,一定要依靠他人才能很好地保护自己“看到”自己的“盲点”。
    2、快速地交换手上的物品
        尝试克服自己的旧有思维方式,用新的眼光看世界,会有不少的收获
    3、跳海
        可能是我太熟悉水性了,玩了两次,感觉一点都不刺激。看着大家一副痛苦的表情,我在水里面就拼命地给大家打气。最终全部队员都跳下来,我颇为有成就感。
    4、完蛋计划
        鸡蛋从高处落下不破,这个大家都玩过很多次了,不过我们每一组都有一定的金钱数量,要先设计方案,然后要竞争拍卖会,投标买下我们所需要的物品。可惜我们的目标物品被其他组看出,一路抬高拍卖品的价格,差点害我们破产。
        别让敌人看穿。
    5、猎物收集
        BT的长时间不间断跑步寻找猎物。
        作弊有时候是必要的。
    第二天的游戏:
    1、早上六点起来跳海:
        还是没有挑战,最大的挑战是这么早起床,眼睛都睁不开
    2、背背囊上山:
        每人身上有5升的水,外加食品、帐篷、地席,感觉身上好象坐着一头猪,又重又大。汗居然是不需要经过身体内部的,直接从口部进入皮肤,然后从毛孔排出,还会蒸发。
    3、地图寻宝:
        最要命的项目,拿着指南、地图,在山区里面我完全找不到方向。尝试了很多的路线都是找不到东西,那种付出了,却得不到回报的感觉不是一般的无奈和郁闷。
    4、回程:
        各组队员欢呼之际,不少人把背着的食物一扫而空,有些队甚至把身上的水拿来洗手。我们比较保守,没有舍得浪费,决定把带出来的东西带会基地。在步行回基地的过程中,我们发现自己根本不可能在天黑之前回到基地。走过一座山的山顶时,PP突然告诉我们说不能回基地了。顿时,我们立刻明白其实事情的本质是他们的一个圈套。
        PP的原话:一个好消息,一个坏消息。想先听哪一个?
        答曰:坏的。
        PP:坏消息是我们不能回训练基地了。你们今晚要自己想办法照顾自己。
        答曰:那好消息呢?
        PP:好消息是我们不用回训练基地了。你们今晚可以不用在我的身边,你们自由了。
        ~~~~场下估计是人的都在滴汗。
     第三天:
    早早5点多就已经起床了,准确地说是,其实我们是“起山”了。
    拖着沉沉的步伐和同样沉重的眼皮,我们走到了高空活动区。简单说说我自己的表现吧。其实我对自己在高空活动的表现是非常非常地满意啊!!!HOHOHO!!
    不但有三个项目都是我第一个上去,而且这三个项目我都满分完成。实在是好强。
    尤其是高空的平衡木,20米长啊,四层楼高,我竟然心里喊着“大不了掉下去死掉”就走过去了。

    BLOG改版通告

    好久没有写BLOG了,最近MSN在全球范围内BLOG升级,我不能再容忍我的BLOG是这种垃圾素质~~~

    十天之内一定要重新改头换面~~

    大家要一起见证!!

    连我自己都觉得很伟大

    昨天收到CHI-HUN和他GF送我的礼物,很感动.
    趁着今天没什么事情可做,从下午3点一直到晚上的10点,全部时间都花在为他们准备礼物上面了,光是材料就花了我15加币.然后一买完东西就回宿舍做事.
    说实在,好久没有画画了,最近一次画东西离现在,算起来已经有2年多.以前我学的时候纯粹是为了应付,真到用的时候才后悔当初没有好好练习.画个眼睛都倍觉困难.生怕画出两个根本就和现实完全没有关系的人.但这还不是最惨的,在我把CHI-HUN画好后,我对他的GF的绘制颇感郁闷:我把CHI-HUN画得很象,但是他GF我画得不象,将来万一他们分手了,岂不是怪我早就在画上诅咒他们?
    不论如何,最后还是搞定了.想想我真是够奢侈的,居然花了这么多钱和时间去准备一份礼物.但是一向都情绪化,爱做什么就做什么.再说,朋友比金钱重要得多~~~(说不定下次我去韩国还可以住在"他们"家里---HOHOHO!!)
    小秀一下自己的成果:
    所以,连我自己都觉得自己好伟大!!!!!!

    进出

    今天看了新亚草的BLOG,顺便测了一个我的日本名字,MS还很不错,贴在这里了:

    My japanese name is 長谷川 Hasegawa (long valley river) 一樹 Kazuki (one wood).
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    明明是想让人进来,

    却想把自己也逼出去

    我夹在路口,

    回头,

    无进只出